Thursday, August 12, 2010

Wedding Fever

   No matter how hard I try to fight it and keep myself composed and held up straight with dignity I am obsessed to the point of a blubbering idiot when it comes to all things Weddings.
   Half way through college I spent my entire winter break planning out my dream wedding up to the location, the perfect dress that was both classy, comfortable, yet BAM, what food I was going to serve (wound up choosing the filet mignon- Hey...what can I say, I am a meat eater), even down to the music that my father was going to joyfully lead me down the isle to. (Of course that music would have to be performed by at 2 piece orchestra at least)

   Ohhh at a mear 20 I was prepared for all things Wedding FEVER.

I would say that wedding fever is worse than baby fever. A wedding is only one day, and it is YOUR day. Its all about you, not so much with a baby. The baby sucks up all the attention until you are no longer a person but an amenity to your child. Also, you know when you go into having a child you have years ahead to both mess it up and attempt to patch it up again. Endless nights worrying, WHAT TYPE OF CRY IS THAT? IS HE HUNGRY? OR IS THAT THE I WANT ATTENTION CRY? AHHHHH!!!

  And if you screw up the cry that night- well lets hope you don't do lasting damage- but mainly the next day you have learned and you can try again.
 
   With a wedding...if you still somehow beileve in "one love" you only get ONE chance.

    Can anybody say pressure?

   I guess I can see why most people crack. Why bridezilla situations occur.

WHICH LEADS ME TO..... THE LINK OF THE WEEK!

http://www.weddingcentral.com/videos?bcpid=63917325001&bclid=57190808001&bctid=58963492001

Ohh my dear, dear readers. Why do us women put so much pressure on this one day? Spending thousands upon thousands of dollars? Driving our families mad? Starving ourselves to fit into that one perfect dress?

  Why?!

Well thats easy....Love.

Eden

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